“The world
admires oneself by the personal integrity he beholds, not by the position and
the image he entertains”.
I
got inspiration to write this article from the people that I am watching
everyday and with the people that I am working with. When observing people’s
daily activities and behavior, I identified that integrity plays a major role
in one’s success. I found many people in my surroundings begging for respect,
admiration and dignity. In my observation I noticed that nobody respect them
with mind. Many of them make an illusion of respect to them. The main problem I
found in such respect beggars is that they lack integrity. Integrity means this
person is accountable for all his actions and words. How many men can assure
that, they are accountable?
When
observing the teaching community, I found many respect beggars there. They want
respect. They do anything to gain respect. Someone went for illegal matters to
gain respect. Someone project an image that he is the lizard that lifts the
building. Someone is too busy in idiot
matters and curtain lectures. We have many such pigs in our education system.
When
coming to the point that we have to provide such idiots sufficient training in
personnel management and human relations. I have one advice to them. Be
genuine, in all matters regarding speech, actions and in the body language. Because
in the society there are vibrant and brilliant people to find the genuineness
of a person. If you need respect and success treat all people with genuineness
and understanding.
In
connection with personal integrity, I can printout one thing that keep a
standard and project the identity and signature to the society. This signature
is not your initials, but who is the real you with vales and beliefs. Most of
them have no identities and values. They call anyone as their parent if he is
beautiful. I mean they heave the character of many uncultured barbaric peoples.
“So keep the real you as it is then
only the world will rejoice with your presence. Otherwise you are the curse to
the society and you will be eliminated soon. Mind it.”